Everything happens all at once but in different places.   From where I am now, what I did 10 years ago is what I am doing in the now somewhere 10 light years from here....

Why is accidentally seeing our spiritual guru sexually engaged with a fellow disciple in a meditation room funny, but not when the disciple is our spouse?...

We can be certain we don't know what we are looking at when we are certain we know what we are looking at....