Some years back, when one of my children passed puberty, one day they called me "Victor." It sounded odd, but that's a way some children assert themselves. I laughed at what some might take as disrespectful and said: "You can call me whatever you wish but if you cease calling me "father" I might forget I'm your father and you might not like the consequences of having our relationship like that I have with others whom I equally love but who aren't in my will." They never again called me "Victor," but that might be because I would not have recognized them if they had....

When our mood is dark, we absorb light and our body temperature rises. When we are lighthearted, we reflect light and are calm and cool....

When you marry someone like your wealthy grandparents, you're clearly farsighted, not nearsighted....

"Blindness cuts us off from things, but deafness cuts us off from people." As we make our way in this world, we are seemingly more vulnerable and less likely to survive without the ability to see than without the ability to hear. Hence, it would seem better to be deaf than blind. Yet, when we connect with others by hearing and talking, we can see through their perspectives which is the essence of wisdom. Moreover, connecting with others is fundamental to love. Wisdom and love (compassion) transform this world into heaven. There is little point trying to make our way in this world by seeing if we can't arrive at its ultimate destination, heaven. Hence, it is better to be blind than deaf as deaf is death. Seeing allows us to connect (experience) things. However, seeing confirms that we are apart and separate from things. Hearing allows us to connect with and as such be one with others. Better to be able to hear which has us one with everyone, than to see which confirms our separateness. When we are one with everyone, we are in heaven. Most people would rather be deaf than blind; implying that most people feel vulnerable, apart and separate from others. For them, there is no heaven....

"Life is a dream; some have a good one, some have a bad one." Dreams are dynamic, changing from good to bad and good again. Hoping our dream gets better keeps us dreaming. However, when we awaken, everything is neither good nor bad. There is no good nor bad. All that is is just beautiful. Frieda Teicher is my grandmother. When Victor was 6, she sparked his curiosity to wonder what happens when we wake up from our dream....

"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create for the moment the illusion that we're not alone." Orson Welles was an actor, director, producer and screenwriter; an innovator in film, radio and theatre; considered among the greatest and most influential filmmakers of all time. He was also a master illusionist or magician. When our identity is our finite self in time and space (which we perceive as apart and separate from everything that is not our self), ipso facto we are alone regardless of how we might delude ourselves otherwise. When we come to realize that every-thing is not a separate thing but a temporary facet of one thing, the everything; we are not alone as we do not have an independent existence. It is then that the eternal light dispels all illusions as we are one with the light which has no beginning and no end. We are God which is that which is beyond our mind's descriptions as descriptions imply that something is one thing and not another. We are no longer a piece but at peace, beyond our mind's comprehension for the mind has deluded us to identifying ourselves as apart and separate from the everything....

Heaven is real, hell an illusion. In heaven are those who realize everything is an expression of God. In hell are those whose mind tells them otherwise....

"He who knows enough is enough will always have enough." -- Lao Tzu   It's easy to satisfy our needs, but not our desires....